Before going onto today’s recipe for cheesy, quinoa stuffed round zucchini let me go on a rant I have bottled up for quite sometime on the blogging world. Is a rant inspired by what are known as “haters” which frankly make me want to say “get-a-life”. However I never want to post such comments on a posts because then I’d be a hater’s hater and I’d be doing exactly what I want to criticize. So today I am ranting here. If you just want the recipe, feel free to skip to the bottom!
This morning I was web-stalking one of the bloggers I follow. One of those famous fashion bloggers that travel the world and post beautiful pics in amazing places wearing gorgeous outfits photographed by their handsome boyfriends. Easy to hate, isn’t it? In fact, I run across a number of posts on other blogs and media outlets that were very mean to her. Mainly they attacked her for her style (the my-style-is-so-much-better-than-hers kind of posts), for her past (the now-she-is-all-branded-when-she-had-no-sponsors-she-wore-counterfeits kind of posts), for whom she supposedly owes her success to (the it’s-just-because-she-has-XXXX-behind her kind of posts) and so on. And it got me thinking.
Now, if you look at the whole thing objectively I am sure most people will realize and recognize that 1) although you might personally not like her style obviously another huge group of people like it, 2) we all made bad decision in our lives, only, lucky for us (or for me at least), the Internet was not around or not paying attention (although I am sure if you dug hard enough you could find some pic that I would not be happy to see re-posted…), and 3) whoever stands behind her chose her and not a different blogger.
Now can I pinpoint why she became an internet phenomenon? Obviously not otherwise I would be an Internet phenomenon too (or I would be selling that advice dearly to someone)! At the same time, why should I hate her?
What surprised me was not so much the hate comments. But what about the bloggers posting? They must know how hard it is to be a successful blogger and how easy it is o be hated.
I mean any blogger gets a couple of hate comments even someone with awesome, but few visitors like me (just today I approved a comment that said my food was hillbilly – not sure how to take this one but I don’t think is was meant as a compliment-, but in the past I also got “wouldn’t feed it to a dog” and “not real Italian”). Now there are people that manage to make a living out of their blog thanks to their millions of readers (how amazing is that?), the most I ever earned in a month is a leg of lamb. Yet do some of those bloggers post recipes I don’t like? Of course! Use writing styles I find annoying? Sure! Post pictures that don’t entice me? Well I have to admit I can think of none, but I am sure I could find one if I looked hard enough or if I simply became more critical. But obviously some people like them, actually more people like them than people like me. So those bloggers are better than me, simple as that. And that is a fact no amount of me hating them can change.
Now make no mistake I am by no means sad about my performance as a blogger! I am doing well with my day job and I have fun with my food blog and some of you have fun reading it, so I am good with how thing are. I know I could do things to improve my readership (e.g. post more regularly, promote my blog on social networks more, interact with readers more, take better pics – but I will tell you a secret I have no patience for taking pictures or editing them: I tend to apply the 3 shoots and you are posted rule), but really to me the effort to do it seems to far exceeds the benefit I would get out of it. And again this is what works for me, if I had the ability or the passion or that elusive something some of those bloggers have I would be spending all my time on the blog, I just happen to be better (or more happy) at doing other things.
Anyway, as I said this was just a rant. Now onto serious business: the recipe. This is the first time I cooked quinoa. I have been looking at recipes and never found quite the right one, then stuffing clicked and I decided to use it to stuff round zucchini. I added some cream cheese for creaminess and some anchovies and sardines for taste and baked it all. Turned out pretty good!